The
inspiration behind this blog is of course my amazing family so I figured today
I would introduce you to them.
The first
would be my amazing hubby, Mr. Practical.
I met him in 2001 and after our first date I knew he was the man for me.
From day one he has been respectful, gentle, kind, supportive, and the fact
that he is dashingly handsome is a bonus. :o) Through all life’s adversity he
never waivers in his resolve to be a loving husband who is faithful,
understanding, and ever present in our lives. When you marry you can speculate on what kind of father your
partner is going to be but the true test is when it actually happens. The day Sweet Pea was born he held her
for the first time, looked into her eyes, and promised her “I will always love
you, I will always protect you.” When Butter Bean was born, he promised the
same. Over the years he has proven himself to be the kind of father every
little girl wishes for. He adores
his children, takes the same pleasure as I do in watching their little triumphs
in life, laughs at just how truly funny they are, understands their quirks and
appreciates them for the people they are, and loves them. Important above all
else is love.
Sweet Pea is
our first. She was born and within
her first breath I finally understood just how meaningful life really is.
My pregnancy
was full of complications, gestational diabetes, pre-eclampsia, terrible
sickness, and general unpleasantness for 9 months. I did not gain a pound while pregnant with her and within
the 2 days after she was born I lost a total of 55lbs. She arrived 3 weeks
early after an unexpected induction. Her birth was rather frightening with a
momentary shoulder dystocia and a truly scary few minutes while the doctors
were concerned she might have down syndrome. While she did not those were very
tense moments that we did not prepare for. In the days that followed I had terrible blood pressure
problems and she had a horrible case of jaundice that kept us both in the
hospital for 7 days. The next challenge we would face was her horrible case of baby reflux. It was very difficult for her to eat,
she had a hard a very hard time keeping food down, and not even medication kept
her comfortable.
Through it
all I still marvel at that little baby.
She was and is so amazingly adorable, smart, independent, funny,
inventive, and truly my first little miracle. She is not the conventional child in any way, shape, or
form. She questions everything
that life has to offer and a simple answer will never suffice. Ever eager to learn, she reminds me of
her uncle (my brother). Always
trying to figure out how things work. She’s artistic like her mommy and makes
me the most wonderful drawings. Now 4 1/2 years old, she is growing up so fast
and I can hardly believe this wonderful little girl sometimes. My heart swells
with happiness at the mention of her name.
Then came my
Butter Bean. I can think of no better word for this child than joyful. Although I am a terrible pregnant
person in general my pregnancy with her was not nearly as eventful. I had
expected her to come early as she did with another unexpected induction, but I
dodged many other bullets. I did
not have gestational diabetes again and thankfully did not have pre-eclampsia (a
huge fear of mine the second time around.) Her birth was uneventful. With 2 pushes there she was,
my tiny little peanut. Out of the hospital in 24 hours, we went home to start
our life as a family of 4. Butter
Bean was an easy baby and I had been so prepared for an experience like I had
with Sweet Pea. Now 2, she is the most loveable child you have ever met. The kisses and hugs flow freely and she
is a talker to say the least. So
smart, so funny, so incredible. She seems to be an old soul. She watches your every move with and inquisitive
eye and learns how things work very quickly. Always in tune with everyone’s feelings, she loves to cheer
you up when you are down. She brings joy to our family that cannot be measured.
Together, as
life hands us lemons, we always seem to find many uses for them. We are strong
and unified. I would have nothing
without the fantastic man I married and the two beautiful children we
created.
Everyday I
am overwhelmingly grateful to God for the heaping amount of blessings he has
bestowed upon me.